No Biggie in Seeking Help: An Expectation Setting

A good friend and a classmate from school reached out recently. The first thing he asked was how did I survive depression and made my way back “successfully” from the low. Our conversation went on to discuss some common thoughts that cross our minds in times of a crisis. Confusion, invalidation, pain, breakdowns, being triggered,Continue reading “No Biggie in Seeking Help: An Expectation Setting”

It is what it is-Let it go

A blog I keenly follow is KreativeKali. And today I came across a thoughtfully deep and well written Lune. The piece was about letting go. To me this is a dear subject and have learnt much and found freedom by letting it flow. Here is my response to KreativeKali’s deeply thought invoking post. The responseContinue reading “It is what it is-Let it go”

Side Effects of License for Lifetime Sex

Disclaimer: I have no intention to hurt anyone’s religious, social, or emotional sentiments. I might sound like an acidic agony aunt, you can call it a lockdown effect. Writing about the taboo word “sex” in your very first independent post is pretty scandalous. Why is this word a taboo in our society? Every second personContinue reading “Side Effects of License for Lifetime Sex”

Indian Parents on Our Dating Life

I am an Indian girl, in my early 20’s and unexpectedly (from the point of view of my parents) have a love life. Something which our parents don’t expect us to experience or indulge in. Be it online or offline, dating without goal of marrying that person in future is something they don’t understand. MostContinue reading “Indian Parents on Our Dating Life”

Invitation to the Obituary Experiment On Self

Of the many taboos, there exists, one of the greatest is about “Speaking of Death”. The first thoughts of death registered with us are movie scenes/ad scenes of a dark man wearing a huge mustache, holding a club (gada) and come in on a buffalo. He is the god of death but looks like pureContinue reading “Invitation to the Obituary Experiment On Self”